 Re: Poly vs Swinging
Not sure if our situation is considerd to be Poly.
We are two couples who only swing with each other (does a poly relationship only involve 3 people? Not sure on this).
If we are Poly, we can say that it's not without its problems because people's wants change and grow.
We were so happy when we achieved what we thought was our ultimate goal - another attractive couple that shared our desire for swapping and sharing.
But now 3 of us want to try more, but one doesn't.
We guys want to be free to play with each other (as the girls have always played with each other) but we can't.
If you think that a magical male will make you complete, maybe you're right and good luck, but don't bet on it.
People change. We are greedy by nature. We (or most of us) always want "more" or different.
Once a "taboo" becomes the norm, we tend to seek a different taboo or drop the taboo we once sought in a "been there, done that" fashion.
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