The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Finally did it!!

Chitowndk4u · 05-15-2009, 08:25 PM

Something about this just doesn't seem right to me.

You guys talked about it, then decided to do it. Great, that's good. But she didn't want to see you with another woman (because of jealousy, i assume), but had no problem bringing in someone who she knew wanted to have sex with her (most likely she wanted the same). Then the night happens and she sneaks out of bed while you're sleeping to have sex with him privately, without you there?

That's a big no-no and a huge red flag to me.

I think that is cheating because she didn't make an attempt to involve you and had him to herself, but doesn't want you to have a female involved.

I hope you guys have areal conversation about that.

But if it's cool with you then more power to you and I am happy it worked.

05-15-2009, 08:25 PM	#8 (permalink)
Chitowndk4u Born Lifestyler Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 96 Location: Chicago Status: M. Male Swing Lifestyle Name:EandCinChi	Re: Finally did it!! - First Threesome Something about this just doesn't seem right to me. You guys talked about it, then decided to do it. Great, that's good. But she didn't want to see you with another woman (because of jealousy, i assume), but had no problem bringing in someone who she knew wanted to have sex with her (most likely she wanted the same). Then the night happens and she sneaks out of bed while you're sleeping to have sex with him privately, without you there? That's a big no-no and a huge red flag to me. I think that is cheating because she didn't make an attempt to involve you and had him to herself, but doesn't want you to have a female involved. I hope you guys have areal conversation about that. But if it's cool with you then more power to you and I am happy it worked.