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Chitowndk4u · 05-15-2009, 07:22 PM

We've had close relationships with her friends that could be borderline poly, just without the sexual aspect.

We hung out, went places, stayed in and watched movies, and even slept in the same bed with at least two of her friends.

One of them we had same room sex with, but there was no swapping of partners. I grew closer to her friends as a result and when i would buy something like flowers for my wife (then GF) I would buy the same for her as well. She was always at our place,s o it was like we were all together. She grew close to me and we had sex and that's when the complication came in. it totally ruined our friendship and theirs which hasn't been repaired yet and this was 8 years ago.

So all I could say is be careful.

I think it is a good thing if you can handle it.

05-15-2009, 07:22 PM	#12 (permalink)
Chitowndk4u Born Lifestyler Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 96 Location: Chicago Status: M. Male Swing Lifestyle Name:EandCinChi	Re: Swingers, Could you be open to poly? We've had close relationships with her friends that could be borderline poly, just without the sexual aspect. We hung out, went places, stayed in and watched movies, and even slept in the same bed with at least two of her friends. One of them we had same room sex with, but there was no swapping of partners. I grew closer to her friends as a result and when i would buy something like flowers for my wife (then GF) I would buy the same for her as well. She was always at our place,s o it was like we were all together. She grew close to me and we had sex and that's when the complication came in. it totally ruined our friendship and theirs which hasn't been repaired yet and this was 8 years ago. So all I could say is be careful. I think it is a good thing if you can handle it.