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Originally Posted by Looking4uwithus  Wow, see if that happened to me....... I would have considered that cheating.  |
Depends on what your rules are.
My wife and I recently discussed just such a scenario; where we had an MFM, all of us went to sleep, and she decided to have sex with him during the night. Our conclusion was that was fine and if she wanted to do that it would be ok with me.
The difference, at least for us, would be that we discussed it beforehand. Though, you can't imagine all circumstances beforehand, and discuss every possible scenario that will ever come up. My wife and I had a bunch more rules at the beginning than we do now. Experience in swinging taught us that the rules were less important than intent. We have a few inviolable rules (related to birth control) but other rules have fallen by the wayside.