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Chicup · 05-13-2009, 11:32 PM

Generally I see poly as talked about and practiced as a lie.

Once you start talking about the primary relationship, I see it as only swinging with the same partner repeatedly.

We have a couple we have been playing with since we started. I can honestly say I love her and I can say we are no where near poly. Its a non-entangling love. I love her as she is for what she is, but no butterflies, no protectionism, none of the usual 'love' aspects.

Now to all things their can be exceptions and exceptional people. I think a real poly relationship where everyone loved everyone together would be great, and I'm sure some people have pulled this off, and I'm a little envious.

What I see though is mostly stable harems and short term triads.

05-13-2009, 11:32 PM	#10 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,093 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: Swingers, Could you be open to poly? Generally I see poly as talked about and practiced as a lie. Once you start talking about the primary relationship, I see it as only swinging with the same partner repeatedly. We have a couple we have been playing with since we started. I can honestly say I love her and I can say we are no where near poly. Its a non-entangling love. I love her as she is for what she is, but no butterflies, no protectionism, none of the usual 'love' aspects. Now to all things their can be exceptions and exceptional people. I think a real poly relationship where everyone loved everyone together would be great, and I'm sure some people have pulled this off, and I'm a little envious. What I see though is mostly stable harems and short term triads.