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I only have my view and our agreement to use in my reply to this.

First, I would have to say that Poly is an absolutely AMAZING thing. If there was aonther individual(s) in the world whith which I could feel as I do with Mrs. CXXC, I would not know what to do with myself. That possiblity scares the hell out of me as well.

There may well be another person out there to which I could feel emotionally connected to in such a way as to share my heart as I do with Mrs. CXXC. FRIGHTENING! The fact that MRs. CXXC could fall in love with another is equally frightening to me. I truly don't know if and or how I would deal with it.

We have agreed that if one or the other begins to feel pulled toward a playmate in an emotional way, we cut the connection. We can not EVER see them, contact them, communicate with them again. We are simpl;y ill prepared to deal with or understand the workings of that type of relationship.

I say this now, but tomorrow, who knows. I just know that we dont have enough information to understand the poly relationship.

Again, it is an awesome ability to love more than one so completely. It would be an even greater trick in my mind to pull it off. But, in my ignorance and present fear, I cannot willingly accept it.