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Originally posted by LarrySmith
It might be a negative feed-back cycle is going on.
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He thinks that you are not as enthusiastic as you used to be, and so he is not as inspired to perform and can't give it his all.
You think that he is not "giving it his all" and you don't show as much enthusiasm.
He thinks that you are not as enthusiastic as you used to be, and so he is not as inspired to perform and can't give it his all.
You think that he is not "giving it his all" and you don't show as much enthusiasm.
and on and on...
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I think you might be on to something there, Larry. I know that J and I have had this happen once or twice in our 22 years together. Anymore, we recognize when it's happening and know it's time to plan one of our weekend getaways, buy some new toys/playwear and tease each other mercilessly for the week leading up to it. That usually does the trick and breaks us out of our rut!
-B