To each his or her own, but I think we'd pass on a couple who had a 'no kissing' rule. Kissing is a big part of foreplay for us too, and I can't imagine
not doing it. It's a part of the excitement we wouldn't want to miss and we don't see how it's any more intimate than having intercourse with someone. We can't think of anything we enjoy that we wouldn't do with others, except for saying, "I love you!"
-B