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Old 05-11-2009, 12:14 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Default Re: Newbies - overcoming one's insecurities

Mrs. CXXC and I had a similar experience in our beginings. We had sex at a lifestyle friendly resort in view of others. IT was a very exciting and erotic event for us both. It was also our first ever event within which we were exhibitionists. I have to say, it was so exciting, the acitivity stuck in our minds throughout the afternoon. It would not leave and we simply had to run off to our room for another go!

Just remember, you must BOTH be comfortable with everything you do. Do not push or force an activity. Respect each others boundries and limitations. You will find your comfort zone and the envelope of that zone will expand gradually. In time, you may find yourselves leading the pack into new and (at this time) outlandish things!

Have fun! enjoy and most of all COMMUNICATE with each other openly and honestly! Doing so will ensure that yo are both one the same page and having a remarkable time!
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