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Old 05-09-2009, 10:04 AM   #13 (permalink)
oncewere
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Join Date: Apr 2004
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oncewere gives some great advice
Default Re: Do you ever help newbies

When the blind lead the blind they both fall in the hole.

In our club there we always made sure there was someone as Alura described who mentored a newbie. It made a big difference to have someone to answer questions, make introductions, encourage them and generally run interference. It was fun for the mentors too, a win win situation.

We figured that mentoring guidance, optimizing initial experiences, more than doubled the probability of a newby continuing in the club. "A newbie is a terrible thing to waste."
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