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Originally posted by Ciki123
I can understand why couples would reserve kissing for just between them, it is a really intimate thing, and maybe they just dont want to share that with someone other than their primary partner, but for me personally, I love to kiss, and I would just feel strange lying there under my partner refusing to kiss him when his face is two centimeters from mine!  It seems kinda insulting to me.
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I agree Ciki. I am not bashing those that have that rule, but for me kissing is such a big part of the foreplay and is no more intimate than having sex with another person. I have to wonder if it is a mindset. For me the way I kiss someone other than my husband is done out of lust. With him, it is done out of love and has an entirely different feeling.
We are more like Alura in the sense that we reserve the emotionality (is that a word?) of 'making love' for strictly ourselves. Everything else is fair game as long as all are agreeable.