I don't think that anyone here has said that male on male is taboo or wrong. I agree with Cyber.. just because it's not something that someone is interested in trying doesn't mean that they are wrong or that they think there is something wrong with that activity.. it's just not something they are interested in.
I do agree that there is a double standard at the clubs when it comes to male-on-male, and that that is wrong. I don't think it's right that it is almost expected for a woman in a swinging couple to be bi, while it is expected that the guys be straight. However, there are lots of bi couples out there.
I've talked with hubby about this issue.. as it is something that I would be interested in seeing (two guys together), however I'm not sure it's something I would be interested in seeing my hubby do.. not sure how I would respond there.. but that's life (you never know how you will respond in any situation until you are placed in that situation).
Julie
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