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Old 05-06-2009, 02:36 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Default Re: First time MFM - due diligence questions

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Originally Posted by The Fuse View Post
So happy to hear you've reconsidered opening that subject with a co-worker.

I thought all the replies were great. Would have given bbarnesworth another good rep, but I need to spread around the reputation before I can come back to him.

I know your Miss wants an organic experience... but would she be open to just browsing a few single male profiles on a swing site like Swing Lifestyle or AFF? Not with the stated intent of finding someone to swing with, but just as a way of knowing what kind of people might be available, if she were at a later date to decide she might be interested in proceeding that way. Or... you could go to a swing club without any intention of playing with anyone else, but just talk to a few people. You might both be surprised at the quality of people you could meet. Just a few thoughts... you'd have to be careful not to seem like you are pushing. I might get slapped for even suggesting it. Personally, I like just peeking at things that are outside my comfort zone, to see if that zone could expand.
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I wish I had seen your post before I spewed forth my diatribe! Well put and always appreciated!
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