All of you... Thanx so much for the responses. We are truly taken aback at the time and concern that you have given us
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We are very happy to hear that we're on the right track and had a long conversation last night about moving forward with this. We've decided that the risk of disaster in the work place should things not go as planned far outweighs the excitement and enjoyment that may come from this encounter. So we will
not be proceding with the co-worker at this time
. Thank you for really hitting this home in your replies (6/6).
Seeing as my Miss is more inclined to an organic development of such an evening as opposed to me scouring posting boards it could be some time before such an occassion presents itself again.
Is anybody in a similar situation... where one of you is more inclined to take steps to make things happen and the other is more content to let things happen "naturally" if the situation is right? I'm very much a goal oriented person and am all about taking steps toward something i want. So sometimes my Miss feels like I might be a little too focussed on setting up sex-adventures...
Any ideas here again are very much appreciated and absorbed!
N&S