[CXXC]

I will simply mirror the sage advice that has been given before me. Under no circumstance should you EVER bring a co-worker into your bed. The chances of word getting out about your sexual freedom are stacked against you! Consider, if you will, the chances of this individual letting the cat out of the bag. Is it worth it to the two of you for just one night of pleasure?

Stick to other members of the lifestyle. They are all over the place and most eager to please. The number of single men, with no ties to either of you is staggering! Don’t go looking for trouble int he work place. As my father once told me, "Keep your pen out of the company ink well!"

Beyond your choice of playmate, I think the two of you are on a great road of communication, openness and discussion. Keep this up! Share your feelings and thoughts constantly.

However, I must warn, you will never know how you will react to a situation until you are actually in that situation. Seeing another man pleasure your mate is surreal, at best. Will you feel jealousy? Will you feel excited? Will she really enjoy the activity as you are present? The fact of the matter is, you may feel everything or nothing. You will not know until you are engaged in the activity!

Mrs. CXXC and I wish you the best of experiences!