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ktimephoenix · 05-06-2009, 10:57 AM

we have talked to many newbies as well. entering the lifestyle we found most couples were happy to help/talk/ease our minds when we started.

Although the phrase "take beneath our wing" does trouble me. there is at least one couple (that by my judgement) in our "Scene" here, actively seeks out newbs, and ends up exploiting them (first time, not sure what to expect, run the play to suit them etc), and turning them off of meeting alot of other good couples (by spreading rumours). we actually had them try it on us... they obviously weren't paying attention when we were saying that we weren't inexperienced.

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ktimephoenix Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 280 Location: Adelaide Australia Status: Couple	Re: Do you ever help newbies we have talked to many newbies as well. entering the lifestyle we found most couples were happy to help/talk/ease our minds when we started. Although the phrase "take beneath our wing" does trouble me. there is at least one couple (that by my judgement) in our "Scene" here, actively seeks out newbs, and ends up exploiting them (first time, not sure what to expect, run the play to suit them etc), and turning them off of meeting alot of other good couples (by spreading rumours). we actually had them try it on us... they obviously weren't paying attention when we were saying that we weren't inexperienced.