Well....Mr. H and I have been talking about a GB for me for over a year, and it finally happened over the weekend. We originally had 5 gentlemen invited and committed, but only 3 showed up. (take note of that all you first-timers) I was disappointed at first, but in the end it was all for the better.
We weren't too apprehensive about this, but Mr. H insisted on handling a few things in a manner that made him comfortable (for my safety, he insisted). He met all of the gentlemen beforehand (a week earlier). Saturday night, he met them in the bar at the hotel we were staying at. He wanted to make
sure that there were no "surprises" and someone hadn't taken it on themselves to invite another man into the group that we weren't expecting. This also assured that they didn't know our room number and wouldn't/couldn't pass it along to anyone else. They all sat at a table, chatted over a couple of drinks, and went over the "ground rules" before they came up to the room where I was waiting.
If all of that "safety" stuff sounds like we were paranoid, rest assured that we aren't. But we thought it easier to handle a situation BEFORE it happens rather than deal with it later and ruin the entire night for everyone involved.
Our rules for the evening were simple.......(1) No anal unless I ASK for it (2) When/if I say no it means
NO. (3) Condoms for everyone anytime I'm penetrated. (4) Oral without a condom is great, and unloading in my mouth is fine.
When they arrived at the room, I was lying on the bed watching a porn movie and only had on panties. I figured they'd know my body pretty well be the end of the evening anyway, so why hide my boobs now? Besides...they're my favorite part, lol. Anyway, no names were exchanged, we simply shook hands with each other, I gave them each a deep tongue kiss, and then they started getting undressed. None of them was what I would consider "hung", but all were very adequate.
During the evening everyone was very gracious and treated me with respect (even when they were pounding the crap out of me from behind). We started around 8:00, and they left at 1:00. Five hours of non-stop sex. It was undoubtedly the most erotic and satisfying thing that I have ever done.
Here's what I/we learned.......
Like has been said before....they all don't show up. So plan accordingly.
Let your man participate also......he'll thank you later.
Five hours of sex is EXHAUSTING! The next morning I was sore from being penetrated non-stop, and my jaws were sore from the constant oral. My back muscles were sore, as well as my neck and legs, and my nipples are the worst. While the sensation was very pleasant....it is very much a physical workout for the girl.
We aren't into BDSM, but since my hubby was participating also, I let them tie me up for about an hour. I wouldn't have done this without my man in the room, but let me tell you it was incredible. The "being taken" feeling was astounding, but knowing my man was there took away the threat of being harmed and allowed me to fully enjoy it. I had most of my orgasms while they had me tied up!
When YOU cum....they cum (must be a guy thing
). Most of the shaking orgasms I had were immediately followed by a load in my mouth or a pulsing feeling between my legs. So keep that in mind.
Have your man present. You'll feel safer, and you'll both enjoy it. Actually, Mr. H coached the guys by giving directions (let her blow you, etc) and kept the party moving along. He knows what I like, and has heard me fantasize about this. It really helped.
All in all, it was a great experience. We didn't count, but I think I swallowed 5 times, and was penetrated 10-11 times total.
If you really are considering a gang-bang, I would suggest that you talk it over for a long time before you plan it. There are things that you need to get resolved and you must HAVE A PLAN for the evening. We could have went about it haphazardly and probably have gotten through it, but having a firm plan sure helped out by keeping a man in the places I needed without long lulls in the action.
Will we do it again? Probably not. It was great, but now that we've fulfilled the fantasy, I doubt we go back there again.