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Originally posted by LIZA:
As for male bi not being accepted, I have NEVER seen it take place at a swing club. I have seen some swing clubs where the website SAYS no Male bi activity allowed! But in the clubs we have gone to, it is not a stated rule but believe me, it would be very unacceptable. Im sure there are some couples outh there with a Bi male but they probably would just tell you about it on a one to one basis.
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Liza is correct. Most clubs do AT LEAST frown on male bi activity. I think it's a homophobic thing. And the fact that the % of openly bi couples is very small. I say openly because I think there are a lot of couples out there where both are bi but when it comes to clubs he can't really admit that without worrying about what the other guys will think. Goes back to that "can't get/keep it up" problem.
There are a FEW clubs that do allow and even promote male (as well as female) bi activity and actually promote themselves as being for bi-couples... but not very many.
It does suck that there is such a double standard on that. It's practically expected that females in the lifestyle will be bi, but if a guy is he's frowned upon.
How Sad!
Julie
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