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Originally Posted by screaminggood  It sounds as if she's leading you at her pace...so let her continue to do that. If she's bringing up licking a pussy, let her know that you'd enjoy watching it (assuming you would) instead of jumping into the idea of a threesome immediately. I know a lot of men here say that they don't enjoy just watching, but it's definitely where my husband and I began and where many others do as well. So if that's a possibility, it could be a good place to go.... |
I have to agree with this.
There was also something in your first post that really stood out to me and bothered me
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but allowed one guy to slip his hands in her pants while watching the activities,and bring her to several orgasms, but she did not go any further than that, ( I have my doubts on that statement )
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The fact that you doubt her honesty on this statement is an issue. Maybe she did go further, maybe she didn't. But, to swing you both have to be able to trust each other completely. Until you stop doubting what she has told you (and maybe it's because she tells you more) and until she can trust and feel comfortable to tell you everything about how she feels, you won't be able to successfully swing. You don't have the right level of relationship yet.
As others said, have an open an honest conversation with her about swinging OUTSIDE of the bedroom, with your clothes on and your hands nowhere near her genitals or yours.