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Originally Posted by wpcplindy 
Now over the last few years she and I have taken vacations to nude resorts, as well as a couple of vacations to a swingers resort in Mexico. So she has no problem undressing and walking around naked, or having sex on the beach with other couples right next to us watching.
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Most men would consider themselves lucky to have experienced even that.
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But have yet to get her to admit or her to even express interest in a threesome or swinging other than the teasing conversation we have. "She says that she only wants my cock" but then leaves the conversation with a glimmer of hope at times by her comment about she couldn't do it with anyone of my friends or anyone in our town.
I am looking to get as may ideas as to how I might overcome this and expand on the conversation during the times it is brought up during our teasing conversations.
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Stop the teasing conversations (I did see the word teased/teasing quite a bit in your post) and have a serious, open, honest conversation. How can anyone take someone seriously when all they do is tease?
If you want to know what your wife's true feelings are then you need to sit down and talk. You have to let her know your true feelings and encourage her to tell you her true feelings. You both have to trust the other enough to believe what you each are saying.
She may not ever want to make your fantasy game a reality, and that's okay, respect that and enjoy your life together....OR...she may come to understand and believe that you want the game to be real and that it's okay if she wants it to be real as well.
Fantasy talk/play is not the same as reality. Some never want to go beyond the fantasy, others take the step to make it reality.
Swinging isn't for everyone and the only way you'll ever know if it's right for you and your wife is to talk to each other, listen to each other and, trust and respect what each other says.
Teresa