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wpcplindy · 04-28-2009, 05:27 PM

I have been talking with the wife about swinging and a MFM on and off for about 7 years and have had a little headway in getting her to consider a bit of swinging or a MFM.
We are a mid 30s professional couple,and this is our second marriage for both of us. We have been together abou

t 8 years and I expressed to her when we while we were dating that I had done a bit of swinging in the past, and how exciting I thought it was, to watch and be watched as well as a bit of sharing. She was very curious about it and questioned me about it. She said that one of her fantasy's was to take part in an orgy and even said that she had been at a party and stumbled upon several couples partaking in just that, but she just stood and watched but allowed one guy to slip his hands in her pants while watching the activities,and bring her to several orgasms, but she did not go any further than that, ( I have my doubts on that statement )

I have over the last 4 years teased her about doing a MFM and she plays along with the conversation but always ends it by that she could never do that, that I am all she wants and why would I want to watch some one else fuck her.
So I told her it was just a hot fantasy of mine and expressed how it would not be cheating etc. and then just left the topic open and over the last few years would express my fantasy when I could without being pushy.

She has a very high sex drive and masturbates often and some days when I come home she will express to me that she masturbated so much and had cum so many times that her muscles are sore.
Even after we fuck and I fill her up she is still hot for more cock, I tease her often about wanting to bring in a extra male to assist me. She even jokes about the need to have her serviced more.
She has told me about her past partners after she was divorced and how many she has had, how big there cocks were etc. She has also admitted that while she was single and dating she had a fuck buddy that she would hook up at least once a week while she was dating other guys. But of course she didn't when her and I started dating so she has said.

Now over the last few years she and I have taken vacations to nude resorts, as well as a couple of vacations to a swingers resort in Mexico. So she has no problem undressing and walking around naked, or having sex on the beach with other couples right next to us watching.
But have yet to get her to admit or her to even express interest in a threesome or swinging other than the teasing conversation we have. "She says that she only wants my cock" but then leaves the conversation with a glimmer of hope at times by her comment about she couldn't do it with anyone of my friends or anyone in our town.

I am looking to get as may ideas as to how I might overcome this and expand on the conversation during the times it is brought up during our teasing conversations.

04-28-2009, 05:27 PM	#1 (permalink)
wpcplindy Here to Stay Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 16 Location: Indiana Status: Couple	Looking for guidance and direction from others I have been talking with the wife about swinging and a MFM on and off for about 7 years and have had a little headway in getting her to consider a bit of swinging or a MFM. We are a mid 30s professional couple,and this is our second marriage for both of us. We have been together about 8 years and I expressed to her when we while we were dating that I had done a bit of swinging in the past, and how exciting I thought it was, to watch and be watched as well as a bit of sharing. She was very curious about it and questioned me about it. She said that one of her fantasy's was to take part in an orgy and even said that she had been at a party and stumbled upon several couples partaking in just that, but she just stood and watched but allowed one guy to slip his hands in her pants while watching the activities,and bring her to several orgasms, but she did not go any further than that, ( I have my doubts on that statement ) I have over the last 4 years teased her about doing a MFM and she plays along with the conversation but always ends it by that she could never do that, that I am all she wants and why would I want to watch some one else fuck her. So I told her it was just a hot fantasy of mine and expressed how it would not be cheating etc. and then just left the topic open and over the last few years would express my fantasy when I could without being pushy. She has a very high sex drive and masturbates often and some days when I come home she will express to me that she masturbated so much and had cum so many times that her muscles are sore. Even after we fuck and I fill her up she is still hot for more cock, I tease her often about wanting to bring in a extra male to assist me. She even jokes about the need to have her serviced more. She has told me about her past partners after she was divorced and how many she has had, how big there cocks were etc. She has also admitted that while she was single and dating she had a fuck buddy that she would hook up at least once a week while she was dating other guys. But of course she didn't when her and I started dating so she has said. Now over the last few years she and I have taken vacations to nude resorts, as well as a couple of vacations to a swingers resort in Mexico. So she has no problem undressing and walking around naked, or having sex on the beach with other couples right next to us watching. But have yet to get her to admit or her to even express interest in a threesome or swinging other than the teasing conversation we have. "She says that she only wants my cock" but then leaves the conversation with a glimmer of hope at times by her comment about she couldn't do it with anyone of my friends or anyone in our town. I am looking to get as may ideas as to how I might overcome this and expand on the conversation during the times it is brought up during our teasing conversations.