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Old 05-20-2003, 03:26 PM   #7 (permalink)
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It could be a combination of everything you mentioned.

I think the weight issue may be more than just throwing off your rhythm. It may have decreased your attraction for him which may in turn cause you to be less turned on by him.

Having experienced others gives you something to compare him to as well, so you may be seeing them do things that you wish he'd do.

Does he still put the same effort into things like foreplay that he used to? Often when we have been in a relationship for a long while we start to take our partners for granted forgetting that they do need to be warmed up.
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