We've seen a few ads, where couples advertised about the male being bi, and/or looking for 1st bi-male experiences, etc...
The one couple that we've chatted with, we found this out by getting to know them better, as friends first, then whatever happens, happens. We did explain to them, that hubby wasn't bi and that we don't have this desire either, and that we respect their preferences, but don't expect us to change in this manner, and won't expect the same of them either. We were all cool about this, if anything, we've gained friends from this relationship, which is SO cool too! *VBS*
Sorry to hear this...As for you "ending up raw and sore" through intercourse with your hubby, due to his prolonging in an orgasm...Do you not get as wet? Do you use any lubricants?
From personal experiences with my 1st husband...I was the same way, lack of natural lubricant, he had to spend more time orally on me, before we could engage in intercourse. Comparing with hubby now...I just THINK of him, and gets me all wet! *VBG* His touch, his smell, his face, his body...He makes me twitch ALL over, and gets me soaking wet! MMMmmmm...It's starting again! *lol*
Sorry, back to you LIZA! *VBG* Hope we can be of help. *VBS*
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