LIZA, these 15 men you've mentioned here, were you with them while you & hubby were in the lifestyle, in swinging activities, or when you were still single and dating?
To me, that makes a difference. I can't compare the males I've been with BEFORE hubby, they just DON'T compare! But, if it were while in the lifestyle, WITH your hubby, then that's a different story, and yes, comparison is understandable here...
Outta my 39 years of "experiences", including since we've been in the lifestyle, I have never had more than 10 men sexually...Does this make me less experienced than you? I think not. It depends on what we've experienced with others. They weren't earth shaking for me either! *lol* Until hubby came along...*VBS*
What does your hubby think about your desires for him to have/try a bi-experience with another male? Again, we've never tried it, and don't have ANY desires for my hubby to have this kind of experience with another male, but I won't "judge" you or others, because I'm not you...Again, to each's own, different strokes for different folks! *VBS*
And who said, "that 2 men together is not accepted as well"? As far as I know, from my experiences and observations, whatever is exceptable to all who are involved, is accepted. Or has this changed? *Worried look...*
We've chatted with other couples, who both are bi, and we let them know that hubby is not bi. We all respect each other's limits & desires, and that's SO cool! Friendships withOUT limitations and expectations of others, makes it much more comfortable & pleasing for everyone. *VBS*
As long as we're all mature enough to understand and respect others, no matter what it is, then we'll be better off, and have more time to enjoy ourselves in meeting and making new friends! ;-)
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