Another possibility here, as women get older, in the 35+ range, sometimes they gradually come to realize that the expected behaviour they have maintained for 20+ years is plain BS. They realize sex is fun. They can and demand to enjoy the full range of sexual expression, oral, anal, multiple partners, bi, masturbation, you name it. I would venture to say that hormonal changes are greatly involved in this too. Also freedom from child-rearing or potential pregnancy is quite liberating. Some guys just can't handle the evolution of their "good girl" into a dynamic sexual creature. Or they are too oblivious to notice. So do yourself and hubby a favor, tell him what is going on. Chances are he will love it once he gets over the initial shock and inevitable adjustment. Doing or saying nothing will just lead to frustration for both of you, so tell him what is going on. Believe me, if you are supportive of each other, the future will be much more enjoyable.
J
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