This certainly sounds like an "ignorance is bliss" scenario to me. My heart goes out to you in hopes that you can once again feel happy and content in your relationship with your husband.
Based on your comments it seems as though several things may be behind your difficulties. I wish I could offer up a few magical suggestions that would solve your dilema, but allas all I can do is recommend that you and your husband try as best possible to talk your way through what sounds like some rather serious issues that appear to be developing between the two of you.
I would suggest that a professionals help might actually serve you both best in this situation. I'll leave you with one of the most simplistic yet most powerful things I have ever learned in my life along with an interesting piece of trivia to contemplate about the human mind that I have carried around with me all my life.
How you feel is how you think you feel ... so keep telling yourself you feel happy & content and you will be. 1nW (nano-watt 1/1,000,000,000 watt) is all it takes to change your mind ... and your life around. To put into perspective how little effort that is, a common light blub uses 100W. With only that little bit of power you could change the minds of every man, woman and child in the world. So give it a try! Starting with person #1 (yourself).
Sincerely,
Paul & Kalin
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