The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Meeting Someone and Going To Their Place???

Pensacolapair · 04-11-2009, 05:06 PM

While we would never meet someone at their house nor invite them to ours for an initial 'face to face', we have often met on neutral ground and subsequently went to their home or our's later that evening.

In our opinion, that's the purpose of having the initial meet at a neutral venue: to allow everyone to determine if there is enough attraction and comfort to kick things further down the road then or at a later date. If there isn't - no harm, no foul... and expectations havn't been raised by being in a more suggestive/condusive location such as someone's home.
M

04-11-2009, 05:06 PM	#14 (permalink)
Pensacolapair Educated Posterior Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 183 Location: Florida Status: Couple - He (M )posts, She (G) vetos as required Swing Lifestyle Name:MandGinSD	Re: Meeting Someone and Going To Their Place??? While we would never meet someone at their house nor invite them to ours for an initial 'face to face', we have often met on neutral ground and subsequently went to their home or our's later that evening. In our opinion, that's the purpose of having the initial meet at a neutral venue: to allow everyone to determine if there is enough attraction and comfort to kick things further down the road then or at a later date. If there isn't - no harm, no foul... and expectations havn't been raised by being in a more suggestive/condusive location such as someone's home. M
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