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Old 04-11-2009, 02:50 AM   #18 (permalink)
JustMrJ
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Default Re: Want to swing, my wife is not open to idea. Any advice?

I agree with the last two or three posts. You two need that open and honest communication about sex, not to mention ANYTHING else for a healthy marriage/relationship. And this means any subject, any time... dinner, breakfast, lunch, dressing in the morning, watching TV, etc.

Now, the next step is for the both of you to find out what you want out of your sex lives TOGETHER.

Somewhere down the road, that may mean swinging, or it may mean just the two of you enjoying your own 'thing', whatever that may be.

Never push, always communicate and love.

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