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Originally Posted by NCfuncouple98  Mr NC brought it up in conversations for a couple of years, I never really took him seriously about it.
After nice romantic evenings together, the right intimacy, whatever, he just found moments where we were really communicating to bring it up "in passing". I still didn't take it seriously.
Honestly I really was Queen Vanilla. It just slowly worked itself that way as we explored with porn, conversations, sex toys, and just open conversation, as well as fantasies. That was the key to opening the door.
So what was the magic seed that finally blossomed? Can't really tell you. Each person is different, each couple relates differently, and the conversations we had could have the opposite effect for you.
You know your wife. You know this is something of interest to you. Now you need to communicate with your wife honestly and openly, and if she says "No Way", well, maybe that means NEVER, and maybe it's just not the right time.
Our earlier conversations were about a 3some with another male or female, and that helped open the door. Honestly the thought of swapping with another couple, back then, would've completely turned me away. Things change.
Mrs NC. |
Thank you ! I needed to hear something like that. Thank you to everyone who understands my situation. I never realized I would have so much information and people willing to offer advice! Which leads me to think that it can work and be a very pleasurable experience when everything works out. It may never manifest into reality, but you have all given me great advice and a better idea on the situation and how to approach it.
Thank you I will be back reading often.