The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Want to swing, my wife is not open to idea. Any advice?

***JustAskJulie*** · 04-09-2009, 12:58 PM

Trent. TNT is right. In order to give you any advice beyond what she has said, please answer the following questions.

1. Can you and your wife talk about anything and everything in an open and honest way?
2. How have you brought up the subject of swinging to your wife thus far?
3. How open is your wife sexually? Does she talk openly with you about your sex life? Do you watch porn together? Do you enjoy toys in the bedroom together? Watch each other masturbate?
4. Why do you want to swing? What do you hope to get out of it?

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*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,293 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Want to swing by wife is not open to idea. Any advice? Trent. TNT is right. In order to give you any advice beyond what she has said, please answer the following questions. 1. Can you and your wife talk about anything and everything in an open and honest way? 2. How have you brought up the subject of swinging to your wife thus far? 3. How open is your wife sexually? Does she talk openly with you about your sex life? Do you watch porn together? Do you enjoy toys in the bedroom together? Watch each other masturbate? 4. Why do you want to swing? What do you hope to get out of it?