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Originally Posted by trent2  Hello everyone I am a married male. I would love to be able to share my wife but she is so far not open to the idea. I am looking to see if people here are in the same situation and advise from people who have experience in this area. I am not bi but just have the desire to see my wife being pleasured by/with another man.
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Welcome to the Board!
Your question is not the first of its kind, nor will it be the last.
The best advice anyone can give you is to talk to your wife. If you cannot have open and honest communication with each other and RESPECT each others wishes, swinging will not work.
To be successful in swinging it CANNOT be just about what you want, it must also be about what your wife wants. You said you have a desire to see you wife pleasured by/with another man...she too must have this desire or it's a no go.
Talk to your wife, explaining to her why you have this fantasy/desire. Swinging is a big shift in the way most people view sex. She might or she might not ever be able to make that shift in her way of thinking. Listen to her and ask that she listen to you. Even if she never decides that swinging is something that is right for her, having a relationship where you both can communicate openly with each other is never a bad thing. You cannot change your wife's mind for her, you can only plant a seed to a different way of thinking.
Teresa