 Re: Want to swing by wife is not open to idea. Any advice?
Hi there, and welcome to the Board!
First off, from our experience to succeed in this lifestyle requires that both members of a couple be completely on the same page as to what you want from it, and what you're comfortable with. If she's hesitant about even the idea of doing it, then pushing her will only make it a rift between the two of you.
Now, if you're concerned she doesn't have a good picture about what this is all about, having her read these forums is absolutely a great resource to give her all the information she needs to make a determination. We've found the postings here to be invaluable as we've progressed in the LifeStyle.
Either way, don't rush her and you may find she comes along on her own... Or not. No matter what, it needs to be something you decide on and do together... We like to think of it as a "Team Sport". :-)
Just my .02. Good luck!
Mr. Cpl.
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