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Originally posted by ArcaneReference
There is no tolerance involved here - I am absolutely intolerant of lying and/ or cheating - it is attempting to re-establish boundaries and see whether or not the trust will be able to be re-built. A lot of time and effort has been invested and it would be a shame to see it all blown because of a knee-jerk emotional reaction. If our marriage NOW does not work, I can honestly say we gave it a serious try to repair damage.
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I commend you for taking the challenge to try and see if your relationship is salvageable. I do know the difficulty in which you are facing. Although we were not swingers, my ex cheated on me. I tried very hard to overcome the feelings of mis-trust and I couldn't, but there were other factors involved too.
I wish you all the best and hope that you are able to work this out.
Lori