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Originally Posted by HappyCpl  ... My question is, is it 'the norm' to meet someone via the internet for drinks and then go back to their place? I'm feeling a little uneasy about going to the home of a virtual stranger the first night I meet them. (Which was the offer if we all 'hit it off' over drinks.)
Am I just being a big baby? Should we just go and meet them and then judge our comfort level? |
We don't know if it's the "norm" or not, but we've met people over the internet, gone for dinner and then gone back to their place for fun. It felt right to us, so we did it. However, that said, what was right for us at the time might not be right for us the next time. We listen to what our guts say. When we first started out, playing on the first date was a no-no. It took a year or so before we felt comfortable changing that rule.
Go with what your gut tell you to do. If it doesn't feel right, don't do it.
Good luck