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HappyCpl · 04-09-2009, 12:56 AM

Mr. Happy and I have been going to a club for the past month or so and have been having a really great time. We were invited to a group meet and greet last weekend at the same club where we've been hanging out and we met some awesome people. We are even planning on attending another party with this same group in two weeks. (I can hardly wait!)

However, we were contacted via another board by a couple in our area who were interested in meeting with us as well. (Also cool...)

My question is, is it 'the norm' to meet someone via the internet for drinks and then go back to their place? I'm feeling a little uneasy about going to the home of a virtual stranger the first night I meet them. (Which was the offer if we all 'hit it off' over drinks.)

Am I just being a big baby? Should we just go and meet them and then judge our comfort level?

04-09-2009, 12:56 AM	#1 (permalink)
HappyCpl Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 59 Location: TN Status: Couple	Meeting Someone and Going To Their Place??? Mr. Happy and I have been going to a club for the past month or so and have been having a really great time. We were invited to a group meet and greet last weekend at the same club where we've been hanging out and we met some awesome people. We are even planning on attending another party with this same group in two weeks. (I can hardly wait!) However, we were contacted via another board by a couple in our area who were interested in meeting with us as well. (Also cool...) My question is, is it 'the norm' to meet someone via the internet for drinks and then go back to their place? I'm feeling a little uneasy about going to the home of a virtual stranger the first night I meet them. (Which was the offer if we all 'hit it off' over drinks.) Am I just being a big baby? Should we just go and meet them and then judge our comfort level?