Mis-quote of FLORI-daman "good luck, I wish I had that tolerance". Thanks. I wish I had it [tolerance] too.
There is no tolerance involved here - I am absolutely intolerant of lying and/ or cheating - it is attempting to re-establish boundaries and see whether or not the trust will be able to be re-built. A lot of time and effort has been invested and it would be a shame to see it all blown because of a knee-jerk emotional reaction. If our marriage NOW does not work, I can honestly say we gave it a serious try to repair damage.
Will we swing again? Likely not for awhile. If again, then only together as before. I still have some healing to do to get over it. |