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Old 03-30-2009, 08:08 AM   #7 (permalink)
Willing29
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Default Re: Getting ready checklist...

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Originally Posted by iapr View Post
Do not feel that since you have been getting excited in anticipation of this and that you are in a swingers club that you HAVE to play with anyone. If the attraction, chemistry and comfort are not there, do not proceed. Don't be afraid to walk away and come back another day.
I agree with iapr, do not feel that since you are going to a on-prem club that you have to do anything but have fun. We have been to a few clubs about a half dozen times or so and have not played with anyone but ourselves. Eventually it might happen but there should be no pressure at all. That way you won't do anything you might regret the next day. Good Luck and just enjoy yourself.
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