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Old 03-27-2009, 05:16 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: Getting ready checklist...

First of all, go with absolutely no expectations. You don't want to leave disappointed!

I would recommend you go with no intention of playing the first time to the club. Take the tour of the club, mingle, and check out the surroundings.

Is this an on-premise or off-premise club?

That was what we did for our first visit, and I'm glad we did. It brought out more questions and discussions that we hadn't thought of, even though we had been discussing it for quite a while.

If you do happen to meet someone/couple that you both connect with and want to, I wouldn't turn it down if you all connect and agree that you're ready, but just don't go with that expectation. If you go with that expectation, and the night wears on without meeting anyone you both like, you may make a choice that you would regret later.

Have fun and let us know how it goes!
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