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Hedonismo · 03-27-2009, 05:09 PM

The Mr. and I are getting ready to go to a club for the 1st time in two weeks and this will be our 1st intro into swinging. We have received excellent advice through the swingersboard, as well as advice from some great new friends, but would like our list double checked

we are doing everything proactively as we can to ensure we have a fun experience. So here is what we have discussed-

We each made a list of what we would like to experience and agreed on the terms. We agree that at any time either partner has the right to change their minds-not to negotiate new play terms, but if one is uncomfortable for any reason we insist that person speak up immediately! DO NOT TAKE ONE FOR THE TEAM! The chatter on the boards also repeatedly discusses communication with the other play partners, and we agree that we will have to sack up and just talk about what we are looking for, willingness to participate and precautions up front.

We are really excited (I am borderline obsessed, in a good way of course)

So please let us know if we have forgotten anything!!

Thank you so very much!

03-27-2009, 05:09 PM	#1 (permalink)
Hedonismo Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 12 Location: Olympic Peninsula Status: Couple	Getting ready checklist for first trip to on-premise club The Mr. and I are getting ready to go to a club for the 1st time in two weeks and this will be our 1st intro into swinging. We have received excellent advice through the swingersboard, as well as advice from some great new friends, but would like our list double checked we are doing everything proactively as we can to ensure we have a fun experience. So here is what we have discussed- We each made a list of what we would like to experience and agreed on the terms. We agree that at any time either partner has the right to change their minds-not to negotiate new play terms, but if one is uncomfortable for any reason we insist that person speak up immediately! DO NOT TAKE ONE FOR THE TEAM! The chatter on the boards also repeatedly discusses communication with the other play partners, and we agree that we will have to sack up and just talk about what we are looking for, willingness to participate and precautions up front. We are really excited (I am borderline obsessed, in a good way of course) So please let us know if we have forgotten anything!! Thank you so very much!