 Re: HPV; why is it downplayed
Every time I see threads like this appear I always have the same thoughts. It's about time I write them down.
For a moment, forget about HPV being a swinging topic.
If I was single and dating these past five years, rather than swinging with my husband, I'd have had sex with more men. Why? Because when a couple swings there has to be a 4-way click or sex doesn't happen. Over these years I've met many men I would have chosen to have sex with, but my husband wasn't interested in their wife, or she wasn't interested in my husband, so I didn't have sex with these men.
If I was a single woman, not involved in swinging, I'd be having sex, and much more than I do as a married swinging wife. I think sex is important, healthy, fun, and a necessary engagement when considering a potential long-term partner. To elliminate sex based on fear would be unreasonable to me. I would take the precautions to prevent HPV and not worry what "could" be.
I enjoy living life without uneeded fear. I like sex being a part of it.
LM
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