I saw your pics and think you are very desireable and have nothing to worry about.
I also agree with many of the above comments about us men in general and our sex drives. We could have just had fantastic sex with Pamela Anderson & Angelina Jolie at the same time and still look at porn later in the day LOL .... so don't worry about comparing yourself or competing with anyone. From what you have written it seems very probable that your BF finds you VERY attractive and seriously lusts after you.
Another point that I thought about that MAY or MAY NOT be true is the following : Is there something that he wants from sex that you are not giving him? Just a thought.
I am 31 and my fiancee is 30. When our relationship first started I was kind of bored with sex even though the frequency was right, I found her more than beautiful and we did have the odd 3some! What more could a guy ask for?? Well I found that certain elements were missing on her part ... spontenaity, getting out of the general sexual routine, doing daring things, her being the initiator, her not being there fully, mentally etc...
After a few years it became clear to her that she did have some sexual issues (like most people , especially girls who are brought up more strictly than men), and the issues were affecting her ability to flourish sexually even though she would go through the motions.
It takes time for people to go through emotional issues and change but slowly things are getting better and better and she is learning to enjoy herslef alot more. I can see her desire like an aura and it is much more satisfying to me.
At that time I used to look at porn more often too. Not because the girls were perfect looking but because I wanted something I wasn't getting. I still do look at porn ( as I said, I am a guy) but not as often.
Again, this MAY be relevant to your situation or it may not. One thing to do is to ask yourself if you are holding back in any way? Another is to talk openly and gently (not accusingly or with a " what's the problem!!! " attitude) with your BF and ask... is there something you'd like from me that I am not doing?
Just a thought.
mopek
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