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iapr · 03-24-2009, 01:54 PM

What would be the point of a repeat of that? Sounds like she may just be a sexual dud in general and a repeat performance isn't going to change that. For all you know they may be perfectly happily married and she may have in fact had a great time, it's just that she is a lousy lover and a dud in bed.

Or it may be something more troublesome going on. Maybe he is so tired and frustrated over her being such a dud that he is out looking for someone else or looking to get his needs met elsewhere. Or it could be as suggested that she is getting her arm twisted into swinging and is just tolerating it untill the divorce papers get filed.

Either way I agree with the earlier poster that said to stay away from Stud/dead fish-combo couples. The best you can hope for is that you have bad sex with them. At worst there can be a drama bomb waiting to go off.

BTW we have encountered Stud/dead fish combos too but more often it has been the fem half that was the tiger and the male that was the dud.

03-24-2009, 01:54 PM	#8 (permalink)
iapr Has Left the Building Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 832 Location: State of bliss Status: couple	Re: Mr Stud and Mrs Dead Fish What would be the point of a repeat of that? Sounds like she may just be a sexual dud in general and a repeat performance isn't going to change that. For all you know they may be perfectly happily married and she may have in fact had a great time, it's just that she is a lousy lover and a dud in bed. Or it may be something more troublesome going on. Maybe he is so tired and frustrated over her being such a dud that he is out looking for someone else or looking to get his needs met elsewhere. Or it could be as suggested that she is getting her arm twisted into swinging and is just tolerating it untill the divorce papers get filed. Either way I agree with the earlier poster that said to stay away from Stud/dead fish-combo couples. The best you can hope for is that you have bad sex with them. At worst there can be a drama bomb waiting to go off. BTW we have encountered Stud/dead fish combos too but more often it has been the fem half that was the tiger and the male that was the dud.