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musclecouple · 03-23-2009, 10:37 AM

Hi Julie,
This is our first & only experience, we met them at a club about 2 years ago (first time we did that too), we live in different parts of the country. We have been getting together about every couple of months or so, usually down in FL, this has been a monogamous relationship, my wife has no desire to 'swing' with anybody else. They seem to be of the same opinion, and I of course, go along. Whenever we get together it is a fantastic and wild time and none of us can get enough.
This started out as a conversation between my wife and I in bed one night after watching an episode of 'Big Love', saying wouldn't it be cool if . . ., anyway, she, on her own, talked to them about it, and it turns out, their into the idea, and this thing has taken on a life of its own. It's a fun thing to fantasize about, but in real life, their are so many issues. At this point they all think they are surmountable, which I guess is the attitude you have to have, but it is SO big. That's why it would really be interesting to hear from somebody who has done something close to this.
The conversations, as you can imagine have been very interesting. The sleeping arrangements, rotating beds and stuff, pretty wild, think about it, how would it be to actually have 2 wives ?

03-23-2009, 10:37 AM	#4 (permalink)
musclecouple Registered User Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 2 Location: illinois Status: couple	Re: moving in together Hi Julie, This is our first & only experience, we met them at a club about 2 years ago (first time we did that too), we live in different parts of the country. We have been getting together about every couple of months or so, usually down in FL, this has been a monogamous relationship, my wife has no desire to 'swing' with anybody else. They seem to be of the same opinion, and I of course, go along. Whenever we get together it is a fantastic and wild time and none of us can get enough. This started out as a conversation between my wife and I in bed one night after watching an episode of 'Big Love', saying wouldn't it be cool if . . ., anyway, she, on her own, talked to them about it, and it turns out, their into the idea, and this thing has taken on a life of its own. It's a fun thing to fantasize about, but in real life, their are so many issues. At this point they all think they are surmountable, which I guess is the attitude you have to have, but it is SO big. That's why it would really be interesting to hear from somebody who has done something close to this. The conversations, as you can imagine have been very interesting. The sleeping arrangements, rotating beds and stuff, pretty wild, think about it, how would it be to actually have 2 wives ?