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Originally Posted by D-nice  she didn't have a problem with it....I wasn't going with my colleague to the club to swing...just to observe the environment and see if I wanted to bring my girl.
My co-worker knew I had a girlfriend...I just wanted to visit the club out of curiosity.
Nothing more or less.
I went to a porn convention in Vegas one year just to meet some of the "celebrities"..just to say I'd been.I had no desire to be a porn star. |
So basically you just wanted to go visit the zoo and rattle the cages a little bit.
No really, we animals don't mind when you come to just watch. We might growl a bit and I wouldn't advise you to get too close to the cage because we really might do more than bite.
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Originally Posted by rpu3 Wow. This is going to come off as obnoxious, but the last thing I need at the swing club we attend are more people going for the freak factor. It's not the zoo. Seriously, if you aren't swingers, don't intend to be swingers, aren't looking for a hook-up, etc., why are you going to a swing club? Newbies, don't take my mini-rant to mean you. Many of us weren't sure if we wanted to swing or not, and some of us went to a club to check out the scene, slowly wade in, etc. I'm being specific to those who go with no intention to swing. Sure, maybe some will find it is for them, but given my club had routinely let in the lookie-loos after midnight, I just find this population somewhat annoying in a swing club.
I hope if you do attend a swing club, that you are very direct and upfront about your non-swing status to save time for those who are at a swing club to, gosh darnit, swing! If attending a club is still something you'd like to explore now or later, I sincerely hope you read the Swinging at Clubs/Parties Forum, which has a lot of information regarding your particular position, as well as etiquette at the club advice. |
What she said. And specifically, you might also want to read this thread:
http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...e-new-zoo.html