Hey 24inflorida!
To the female: I (Trixie) was JUST LIKE YOU at first. Speed and I started talking about my bisexuality and bringing another woman into our bed about a year ago. I, too, had NO interest or desire to EVER be with another man, period. Other women, yes!!! But another dude....
I just couldn't picture myself ever being attracted to another man enough to want to get naked with him LOL.
Of course, if you read our Member of the Week interview, you'll know that I've changed my mind about it. After a couple of months being on this board and talking about other couples (I still wasn't sure that in reality I could/would want to do it), we started meeting people. The first experience we had ended up as a full-swap (same room), and was totally hot!
I would never tell you that maybe one day you'll change your mind, or that you should expand your "horizons" or whatever. If you don't want another man involved, that is your right. It is, after all, YOUR sex life! I will say it's more difficult in some ways to deal with a single than a couple (especially if the single has issues/drama of his/her own). We've had a tough time finding the right single female, and the couple we ended up swapping with had the same story -- except they were looking for single
males!
We have talked to this couple a bit about 3somes (with the 4th watching), and the wife is bi-curious so there is future potential for some FF play too. I'd love to watch Speed and Hubby double team Wife, she's quite vocal and it's a big turn-on for me. So this couple may actually be able to help us fulfill more than one sexy fantasy! So I guess my point is this: keep talking to your hubby, and when you do go out to meet people, don't write couples off right away. Few couples would ok playing with one half and not the other (think what your hubby would feel if another couple said "we just want you -- but your hubby can sit over there and watch"). However, we all have our desires and kinks. If you meet and talk to enough people, you will eventually find someone who's kinks match your own... and then....
Trixie
PS Some people have complained about having trouble finding couples they "click" with too -- it's all about patience and not "settling" just to finally do "something."