[couplers]

Hubby and I are only a few years older than you and I have had good luck recruiting single women for him from among friends and acquaintances. The advantage is that everything can be explained and set up in advance. For instance, when she first comments that I have a good looking husband, I go on about how good he is in bed, hint that maybe she would like to try him, and if she is receptive, that I'm OK with it. It's an opportunity to screen out the ones that aren't real or can't handle what it really is, just some good sex. Two of the four I have set hubby up with over the last six years have been coming off divorces or breakups, so focus on women in that situation, but be the one that gives the emotional support to her. One of the other woman is an overachieving professional woman with no time or inclination for a deeper relationship, so consider that as well. I am still good friends with all of them. While I like to watch as well, only two enjoyed me to be there when having sex with hubby.

While I play too and theoretically we could do couples swaps or parties, my only other sex is only with an old boyfriend. He was OK with it being one way, but I wasn't, hence the female recruiting for hubby.

Hope this helps.