You guys are so great! Thanks for everything, really!!! I feel 100 times better about the whole thing. Like Ive said, I consider myself to be open minded when it comes to porn, I look at it myself and I know how guys are...it really is just my insecurity causing me problems. I love my husband SOOOO much and just cant stand the thought that he could be bored with me. Anyways, the swingers enter into this because we are swingers. We talked about it for two years and have been into it for three. Not very often but every six months or so. I have no issues when it comes to that atall, only have had great experiences. I just thought the increase of porn meant boredom...Now my other problem...because I talked to him about this he swears that he is going to quit to save me from being hurt...but thats not atall what I wanted and Ive felt horribly guilty. Especially after hearing your responses and making me realize that my fears were probably completely wrong! I want my hubby to be happy and not ashamed around me because of this. I really wish it never wouldve been brought up. Ive caused him pain now that he doesnt deserve. But thanks for everything you three said, thanks for all of your help
Thanks for making me understand a little more...