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Old 03-20-2009, 07:45 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Default Re: Thought Jealousy?

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Originally Posted by Chicup View Post

...I had this primal desire to shield her from other males, which is normally called jealousy but really isn't a proper term for it.
This is an important point, to differentiate between sexual jealousy and a man's natural inclination to protect his mate.

There have been a few times when I was warming up to a man and considering playing with him. However, when MrLM and I had a moment alone he would tell me he had a bad feeling about the guy and didn't want me to move forward with him. I trust my husband's instincts completely. I understood his protection mechanism was working and not jealousy creeping in.

Neither of us have ever felt a twinge of jealousy when swinging...and we are a very healthy couple.

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