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Originally Posted by Chicup  We did separate rooms our first full swap.
Bad move, jealousy doesn't quite describe it though. I'm sure that what people call jealousy but it was more of a primal feeling. I was so distracted I made an ass of myself with the other woman, doing things far to fast and without thinking.
I'd say it took about a week to completely get over it.
Had we not been separate rooms I don't think there would have been an issue. The imagination is normally worse then the reality. |
You are so right, the imagination can do much more damage if you allow it. The key is to talk any of these concerns out the moment they surface.
I was very surprised to find that there was no jealousy involved when we began swinging. I imagined every possible scenario prior to any action on our part, but when it came right down to it there was no jealousy at all.
KL