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Originally Posted by NymphoWind  Now I understand that those who are in the lifestyle find it a huge turn on to see their partner with another, etc etc...
But for those of you who are in the lifestyle is there ever a time when you feel slightly jealous seeing your partner with another?
Do you/have you felt any kind of jealousy towards your partner during or after ever playing?
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So far, no, not at all. Guess it could happen given the right scenario, but we're not really jealous by nature. Probably the closest thing, but not really jealousy, was an early experience where he was hitting it off good with the other wife and she was really into him, but the Mrs didn't have the same chemistry with the other male. This was in a club environment and we had all gone together, so there was some awkwardness and feeling left out there. Nothing serious, and the scenario as we had it set up was almost doomed to have something like that happen from the start given the inexperience all around.
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Originally Posted by Chicup We did separate rooms our first full swap.
Bad move, jealousy doesn't quite describe it though. I'm sure that what people call jealousy but it was more of a primal feeling.
Had we not been separate rooms I don't think there would have been an issue. The imagination is normally worse then the reality. |
Our first experience (technically second experience, but that's another topic) was just the opposite. Same room or separate is one of those never-ending debates, there is no wrong or right, and everybody has their preference and reasons for it. But, in our case, the separate rooms seemed to allow us to relax more and really enjoy things and see that this wasn't nearly as scary as we had made it out to be. For us doing same room, seeing the other is fun, but it's not something we are into in a huge way. I think the good separate room experience early on has helped us in several ways, one of which it was a good jealousy baptism by fire, and there wasn't any.